No matter how old we get or how many relationships we go through in our lifetime, we all hold on to the dream that one day we will successfully find that person that we will spend the rest of our life with. Developing a deep and intimate love for another human being is one of the most beautiful things that our world has to offer and finding your soul mate is, many times, the most satisfying thing that will happen in our lifetime.
One of the greatest curses of our ongoing search for a life long soul mate is that many of us fear that it will never happen. We start to get the feeling that every relationship we get into is going to be the one, and then upon failure start to ponder whether there is anyone out there for us at all. These thoughts can create a great deal of disappointment and sometimes even result in depression. We develop a fear of being alone and our negative thinking can start to impact our lives.
Here’s a look at a few ways to soothe those fears and get yourself in a position where finding your soul mate doesn’t become a stressful and un-enjoyable experience:
The power of positive thinking is much greater then you could even imagine. Simply thinking positively will send an aura of confidence to other people that will make them happier just to be around you. Think about the people that you enjoy being around. Do you enjoy surrounding yourself with people that wine and make excuses about things that are happening in their lives or people that remain positive and optimistic regardless of the circumstance? I’m going to assume the later…
For this reason simply thinking positively can greatly increase the amount of people that enjoy being around you and help ensure you that opportunities to find your soul mate don’t go in vein. Positive people like to surround themselves with other positive people. Be optimistic, see this world with the glass half full, and your soul mate will find you.
I can’t tell you how many opportunities are missed due to someone being fearful of rejection. It’s one of the biggest crutches for people hoping to find their soul mate. We start to assume automatic rejection and for that reason decide to not even make the attempt. It’s so much easier for us to simply sit back and assume a negative outcome then to just go out and do it.
The most successful people in the world continually talk about being fearless and making things happen. The same can be said for finding your soul mate. If you don’t make the attempt to do it then you have no chance of succeeding. Failure is a necessary part of success. Live a fearless life, take chances, and success will surely follow.
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